For many, family is sacred, and maybe that’s how it’s supposed to be, but when your family treats you like their personal ATM, the relationship can be nothing but rocky.
Recently, I bought myself a small, brick house in Charlotte, North Carolina. Some would say it’t not much, but the way to that purchase was paved with working long hours, never taking a vacation, and renting a shabby apartment.
I was extremely proud I finally got myself a house and decided to keep it a secret from the rest of the world, especially from my family. The only people who knew about it were my real estate agent and my best friend Olivia.
That was the plan, anyway, but then one day, just as I was about to park my car, I spotted my parents’ SUV parked out front.
The moment I walked inside I saw my sister Brooke sipping herself some coffee and looking around as though she was touring a stage open house. My mom was busy opening my kitchen cabinets, and my dad was staring down the hallway, basically measuring it with his eyes. Not a single one of them looked embarrassed.
“What are you guys doing here?” I asked, still holding the heavy grocery bags.
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Brooke started laughing like crazy. “Mom found your new address in a closure letter left by mistake in your old apartment.”
Then I remembered that my mom still had a spare key to my old place for emergencies, and she had used it to snoop through my mail.
“So that’s what you’ve been spending your money on,” she said, clearly insulted. “Purchasing a home without informing anyone?”
“I didn’t inform you since this is my personal property,” I answered back.
Dad seemed furious. “Don’t speak to your mother that way. We’re simply shocked!”
But Brooke kept laughing as she climbed up the staircase. “Shocked? Relieved, rather! The house is worth residing in. My lease expires next month; so, I guess I’m settling myself at our new place in a few days. The large bedroom suits me just right.” Turning to our mom, she said, “Mom, maybe you could take the small one, what do you say?”
That’s when I decided I won’t put up with their rudeness any longer. “Oh, no. You are not moving in.”
“Brooke, come on. Don’t make a big deal out of this. Three bedrooms, no husband, no kids! No excuse for you to hog up this house.”
Then my mom decided to speak, and she only made things worse. “Baby, family takes care of family. Brooke is in need right now, and your father and I can come here as well.”
I looked at my dad, waiting for him to talk some sense into them. But he was even worse than my mom and Brooke. “It makes sense, you are all alone here anyways,” he said.
All three of them saw my house as a shared property despite not spending even a single cent on it. I had it enough. I dropped the bags on the floor and said, “Get out! All of you!”
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Of course, they got angry and started accusing me of being selfish and not taking care of my family. But I didn’t care. All I wanted was for them to leave my house. And once they were gone, I changed the locks and installed cameras.
Would they come to terms with my wishes? Knowing them, I was sure they wouldn’t.
And then came Sunday, and at exactly 8:43 a.m. a rental moving truck parked in front of the driveway, followed by Brooke’s car, my parents’ SUV, and her boyfriend Travis’s pickup truck.
I didn’t get out but watched them on the camera installed on my phone. Brooke came walking out of her car, my mother was holding a casserole dish (yes, bringing food is enough justification for trespassing into my house), while my father started unloading the folding chairs as if getting ready for a tailgate party. Travis took up a dresser drawer and tried turning the lock using the key. However, it wouldn’t move. Brooke grabbed the key from his hands and tried turning the lock herself.
Soon, my phone started ringing. Ignoring all the calls, finally Brooke began banging on my door with her fists. “Jenna, let us in! The movers are here!”
I only cracked the door a little bit. “Why doesn’t the key word?” Brooke asked.
“Because it’s not your key.”
